Monthly Archives: April 2008

Lessons from the movies, Part 1: “If you really loved me…”

The other night we watched a movie called The Sea Inside (El mar adentro in Spanish). It won the Academy Award for best foreign film a few years ago, but I don’t think very many people have heard of it … Continue reading

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Dystonic Schmystonic: Extending the Topsy-Turvy Society Analogy

A good friend and I were recently discussing same-sex attraction. He has always shown himself to be empathetic, even though he has a reputation as a tough guy–former under-sheriff for a large metropolitan county.

Posted in Attraction, Opposite-sex attraction, Philosophy, Reorientation therapy, Same-sex attraction | 12 Comments

Hopes and dreams

Hope is a wonderful thing. It’s part of the faith, hope, and charity trio of virtues, and in a world where a lot of bad stuff happens on a regular basis, it can be what keeps a person going. I … Continue reading

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Need and community

Today is the one year anniversary of Northern Lights. The objective we set out to accomplish was to foster an online community that would provide support and fellowship to faithful church members through online conversation regarding homosexuality and related issues. … Continue reading

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Stepping Back

I have had varying reactions from people when I tell them about my own attractions to women. They range from negative to supportive and even have a few in between. Sometimes I get those reactions even when I’m just talking … Continue reading

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‘Chasing the Devil: Inside the Ex-Gay Movement’

On March 29th, a new documentary on the “ex-gay” movement premiered at the 2008 Birmingham SHOUT Gay & Lesbian Film Festival. Most Latter-day Saints probably don’t know (or care) much about the traditional Christian “ex-gay” movement and its critics (even … Continue reading

Posted in Documentaries, Marriage, mixed-orientation, Reorientation therapy, YouTube | 10 Comments