Monthly Archives: May 2008

New York agencies adjust to accommodate gay marriage

Just read an interesting piece that illustrates a key distinction between the supreme court rulings in Massachusetts and California—the ability of non-residents to swing into the state and get hitched. New York, for one, wants to be ready to extend … Continue reading

Posted in Marriage, same-sex | 1 Comment

Excuse Me, Ma’am

I had a client with me and we were going to a meeting with the agency that contracts the work out to me. My client hadn’t eaten and asked if I’d stop at a donut place he knew. I don’t … Continue reading

Posted in Appearance, Gender | 3 Comments

Just a Thought

I have nothing to add to my post today. Weird, I know. But I saw this quote and thought it fitting for the blog. I see it as a nice summary of how I deal with being a faithful gay … Continue reading

Posted in Faith | 1 Comment

Straight Spouse Interview: Miki

Miki Biddles has been married to Kengo Biddles for five years. They have two children. As you?ll see below, she is a very level-headed person with some great insights not only on her marriage but on the value of seeing … Continue reading

Posted in Straight Spouse Interviews, Straight spouses | 7 Comments

A Four-Year Outing

Well, maybe five… In my late forties, I decided to take advantage of having been laid off by Intel where I was doing some web and business programming. I enrolled in a Mental Health and Human Resources program at the … Continue reading

Posted in Marriage & Family, Marriage, mixed-orientation, Outing | 1 Comment

Outing for the better good

In grad school, in my program (a therapy program), we have lots of guest speakers. I totally dig that. I think it’s a great idea. I’ve learned a lot from experts who visit and teach about their areas of expertise. … Continue reading

Posted in Outing, Sexuality, Therapy | 27 Comments