About Northern Lights
Northern Lights is the official community blog of North Star International. It was created by several established bloggers who are believing members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and who have first-hand experience with issues surrounding homosexuality. Northern Lights is to be a place where we and our readers can openly explore and discuss topics and issues of interest to the LDS community—and particularly as they relate to homosexuality and Mormon faith and culture—in an edifying and uplifting manner and within the framework of commitment to the beliefs and ideals of the Church. >>MORESubscribe to the Blog
“Because She Is a Mother” — A Mother’s Day Playlist
"She broke the bread into two fragments and gave them to her children, who ate with eagerness. 'She hath kept none for herself,' grumbled the sergeant.
"'Because she is not hungry,' said a soldier.
"'No,' said the sergeant, 'because she is a mother.'"
~ Victor Hugo
(as quoted by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, "Because She Is a Mother")Voice(s) of Hope Project — Highlight Interviews
In March 2013, we launched a new site, LDSVoicesofHope.org, which features video and written essays by Latter-day Saints who have found peace and hope in the gospel of Jesus Christ—with an ongoing release of additional testimonials.
Please consider financial support of the Voices of Hope Project and see the Northern Lights blog post on why we’re doing it.
New video explaining what Mormons believe about homosexuality
New video addressing 12 common myths and misconceptions about what the Church teaches about homosexuality
AMCAP/FAR Conference addressing Homosexuality now online
On November 17, 2013, the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists (AMCAP) and the Foundation for Attraction Research (FAR) co-sponsored a special conference exploring the Latter-day Saint experience with same-sex attraction: "Same-Sex Attraction: Reconciling Faith and Feelings".
New Church Website on Same-Sex Attraction Offers Love, Understanding and Hope: MormonsandGays.org
In an effort to encourage understanding and civil conversation about same-sex attraction, the Church has launched the website "Love One Another: A Discussion on Same-Sex Attraction." It features a number of videos from people who share real experiences from their own perspectives on a sensitive and sometimes emotionally charged topic.
Read more on MormonNewsroom.org.
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- Dan on Sexual fluidity (and yes, it’s more common with women than men)
- j4k on HuffPost Live discussion and public interest in ‘mixed-orientation marriages’
- Mrs. I Define Me on Amateurs. Sheesh.
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Monthly Archives: May 2008
New York agencies adjust to accommodate gay marriage
Just read an interesting piece that illustrates a key distinction between the supreme court rulings in Massachusetts and California—the ability of non-residents to swing into the state and get hitched. New York, for one, wants to be ready to extend … Continue reading
Excuse Me, Ma’am
I had a client with me and we were going to a meeting with the agency that contracts the work out to me. My client hadn’t eaten and asked if I’d stop at a donut place he knew. I don’t … Continue reading
Just a Thought
I have nothing to add to my post today. Weird, I know. But I saw this quote and thought it fitting for the blog. I see it as a nice summary of how I deal with being a faithful gay … Continue reading
Straight Spouse Interview: Miki
Miki Biddles has been married to Kengo Biddles for five years. They have two children. As you?ll see below, she is a very level-headed person with some great insights not only on her marriage but on the value of seeing … Continue reading
A Four-Year Outing
Well, maybe five… In my late forties, I decided to take advantage of having been laid off by Intel where I was doing some web and business programming. I enrolled in a Mental Health and Human Resources program at the … Continue reading
Outing for the better good
In grad school, in my program (a therapy program), we have lots of guest speakers. I totally dig that. I think it’s a great idea. I’ve learned a lot from experts who visit and teach about their areas of expertise. … Continue reading


