Yearly Archives: 2012

Born That Way

One of the more vocal objections voiced by those who oppose living the gospel with same-gender attraction is encapsulated in three words. Born that way. The reality is that people are born into unique environments. That’s a given. “Was I … Continue reading

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Guest Post: “Maybe I Need to be More Gay”

Hello, my name is Arlo, and I wrote this piece shortly after the recent conference in Provo. I have been married for 19 years, and we have three children, from ages 13 to 22. Some of you may have read … Continue reading

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My Thoughts about God, Spirituality, Religion, the LDS Church, and How I Fit In As One Of Father’s Gay Sons—Part 1

Nearly three years ago,  when I was sitting in the temple, I had an impression about a blog post I should write. I thought I could do one post and cover all my thoughts, but realized that it would be … Continue reading

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Forever Changed

Earlier this month I asked a member of our ward to give a talk on the Nativity Story and to do so from the perspective of likening the scriptures unto ourselves as admonished by the prophet Nephi in the Book … Continue reading

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Hmm, Well. I Actually Didn’t Put It Quite As It is, So I’ll Have to Rephrase It.

In the country of my residence there is no such thing as Thanksgiving day. There is no first harvest and Puritans – if you know what I mean – because I was born and live in the Old Continent aka … Continue reading

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A letter for change

A friend of mine recently asked me to take part in a dialogue on his Facebook page regarding SSA and the church. One participant was a fairly conservative young man (I’ll call him Paul) with the viewpoint that experiencing homosexual … Continue reading

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