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About Rex

Rex has experienced same-sex attraction all of his life, but has been married successfully and faithfully since 1977. He is the father of five and grandfather of eight. After a 24-year career as a software developer, he went back to school to become a social worker. Currently, he operates in both professions. He is a mentor to developmentally disabled adults, providing community inclusion opportunities, community living skills, assistance with activities of daily living, and behavior consulting. He also develops software. He’s been involved in the internet since about 1990 and have been known as someone who deals with same-sex attraction since about 1997.

All Things That Lie in Our Power

I sat in a crowded room, looking down at the bare feet of a young surgeon. My mother sat in a chair nearby along with my stepfather, other members of my family, my mother’s home teacher, and her bishop. The … Continue reading


Categorized under: Faith, Healing, Hope, Love, Marriage & Family
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Hair

I know that a lot of men who experience same-sex attraction and are striving to stay faithful to the teachings of the Church relate that have doubts about their masculinity. Some express it in terms of, “not really feeling like … Continue reading


Categorized under: Appearance, Culture, Gender, Identity, Men
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The Tolerance Trap

In the General Conference of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, the general authorities of the Church and other officers speak to us about matters of spirituality and morality. These days, when someone takes a stand about morality, … Continue reading


Categorized under: Chastity, General Conference, Love, Marriage, same-sex, Prophets, Temptation
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Divine Role Integrity

One of my jobs is as a behavior support specialist for developmentally disabled adults who have maladaptive behaviors that pose a risk to their own safety of the safety of those around them. The work entails becoming familiar with the … Continue reading


Categorized under: Families, Family and Friends, Holy Ghost, Local Church Leaders, Responsibility, Service
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Boldness

The author of Hebrews, whom most Latter-day Saints accept as being the apostle Paul, wrote: For we have not an high priest which cannot be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but was in all points tempted like as … Continue reading


Categorized under: Faith, Hope, Temptation, Worship
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Beyond Acceptance

When I was single, one of my first jobs was counting canceled checks at night at a bank. I worked in a large room that was a sea of desks, thumbing through piles of statements and checks. I would look … Continue reading


Categorized under: Charity, Eternal Perspective, Healing, Love, Responsibility
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