Author Archives: Winston Smith


Maternal Hormones Strike Again

I came across an interesting blog piece about the lingering effects of maternal stress hormones on the psychiatric development of children. One study looked at the later-life mental health outcomes of children whose fathers had been killed while their child’s … Continue reading


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Biblical Oral Sex

I’ll be honest—at first I thought this guy was just some shock-jock gone pastor. Oh contraire. If you ever wondered what it would be like to cross Spencer W. Kimball with Eminem, prepare to meet Mark Driscoll:


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This is your (cyber) hometeaching for the month of January

Hi all. Many times when I am hometeaching, themes from the First Presidency message will stimulate thoughts for me about living the gospel within the context of same-gender issues. Most of the time, I sense that it would be inappropriate for me to guide my hometeaching visit discussions toward topics related to same-gender attraction. Freshly starting off the new year, however, I’m going to experiment with this forum for discussing the First Presidency message themes that speak to me about same-gender attraction.

This month, Elder Eyring’s message is about raising the voice of warning. He uses an anecdote from his childhood to frame the ensuing topics:

“I can still remember my mother speaking softly to me one Saturday afternoon when, as a little boy, I asked her for permission to do something I thought was perfectly reasonable and which she knew was dangerous. I still am amazed at the power she was granted, I believe from the Lord, to turn me around with so few words. As I remember them, they were: ‘Oh, I suppose you could do that. But the choice is yours.’ Continue reading


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My first husband

There is a verse in Hosea that speaks to me deeply. Hosea and his family became a metaphor for Israel and her relationship with the Lord. Hosea declares, speaking of an unfaithful wife: “She shall follow after her lovers, but … Continue reading


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Veggasexuality: how food informs my sex life

So, a couple of years ago, I decided to become a vegetarian. I had my reasons—my boss who I greatly admired was a vegetarian; I had just moved to a liberal city where being a vegetarian was a little more … Continue reading


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Male and Female created He them

Hi folks. I am a bit new to the discussion on Northern Lights. I came across a post by Ty about God, Gender, and Race that I found fascinating. It looks like Ty was trying to initiate a discussion on … Continue reading


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