Category Archives: Agency

Reality in Temptation

Sometimes when I talk with people about same-gender attraction – people who are still learning what it entails – they ask me what the big deal is. Why do people talk about it or dwell on it? Do guys with … Continue reading

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Sexual fluidity (and yes, it’s more common with women than men)

As Dr. Kinsey observed, “The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.” (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male, pp. 639, 647) I have read countless books about human sexuality, sexual … Continue reading

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Educating and Training Our Desires, Part II

Last August, I wrote a North Star blog titled “Educating and Training Our Desires.” Since then, I have continued to be intrigued by the idea of how I have, and how I can, educate my desires. I found the transcript … Continue reading

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Merciful Reconciliation through Choice and Accountability

Rules and Laws including moral laws bring agency.  Kings make laws and their knights or loyal warriors guard or protect the integrity of the kingdom through maintaining those laws.  Rules bring order and safety.  Rules can bring freedom or bondage … Continue reading

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Addiction: The Eye of the Hurricane

This image of Hurricane Wilma was taken by the crew aboard NASA’s international space station as the complex flew 222 miles above the storm. Wilma’s eye was two miles across at the time, the smallest eye ever observed, indicating an … Continue reading

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Another Sneak Preview from the Voices of Hope Project: Josh & Lolly Weed

Since last summer, a special production team assembled by North Star has been busy producing a dynamic interactive companion to Ty Mansfield’s book, Voices of Hope: Latter-day Saint Perspectives on Same-Gender Attraction—An Anthology of Gospel Teachings and Personal Essays, which, … Continue reading

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