About Northern Lights
Northern Lights is the official community blog of North Star International. It was created by several established bloggers who are believing members of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and who have first-hand experience with issues surrounding homosexuality. Northern Lights is to be a place where we and our readers can openly explore and discuss topics and issues of interest to the LDS community—and particularly as they relate to homosexuality and Mormon faith and culture—in an edifying and uplifting manner and within the framework of commitment to the beliefs and ideals of the Church. >>MORESubscribe to the Blog
“Because She Is a Mother” — A Mother’s Day Playlist
"She broke the bread into two fragments and gave them to her children, who ate with eagerness. 'She hath kept none for herself,' grumbled the sergeant.
"'Because she is not hungry,' said a soldier.
"'No,' said the sergeant, 'because she is a mother.'"
~ Victor Hugo
(as quoted by Elder Jeffrey R. Holland, "Because She Is a Mother")Voice(s) of Hope Project — Highlight Interviews
In March 2013, we launched a new site, LDSVoicesofHope.org, which features video and written essays by Latter-day Saints who have found peace and hope in the gospel of Jesus Christ—with an ongoing release of additional testimonials.
Please consider financial support of the Voices of Hope Project and see the Northern Lights blog post on why we’re doing it.
New video explaining what Mormons believe about homosexuality
New video addressing 12 common myths and misconceptions about what the Church teaches about homosexuality
AMCAP/FAR Conference addressing Homosexuality now online
On November 17, 2013, the Association of Mormon Counselors and Psychotherapists (AMCAP) and the Foundation for Attraction Research (FAR) co-sponsored a special conference exploring the Latter-day Saint experience with same-sex attraction: "Same-Sex Attraction: Reconciling Faith and Feelings".
New Church Website on Same-Sex Attraction Offers Love, Understanding and Hope: MormonsandGays.org
In an effort to encourage understanding and civil conversation about same-sex attraction, the Church has launched the website "Love One Another: A Discussion on Same-Sex Attraction." It features a number of videos from people who share real experiences from their own perspectives on a sensitive and sometimes emotionally charged topic.
Read more on MormonNewsroom.org.
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Category Archives: Agency
Reality in Temptation
Sometimes when I talk with people about same-gender attraction – people who are still learning what it entails – they ask me what the big deal is. Why do people talk about it or dwell on it? Do guys with … Continue reading
Sexual fluidity (and yes, it’s more common with women than men)
As Dr. Kinsey observed, “The living world is a continuum in each and every one of its aspects.” (Kinsey, Pomeroy, & Martin, Sexual Behavior in the Human Male, pp. 639, 647) I have read countless books about human sexuality, sexual … Continue reading
Educating and Training Our Desires, Part II
Last August, I wrote a North Star blog titled “Educating and Training Our Desires.” Since then, I have continued to be intrigued by the idea of how I have, and how I can, educate my desires. I found the transcript … Continue reading
Merciful Reconciliation through Choice and Accountability
Rules and Laws including moral laws bring agency. Kings make laws and their knights or loyal warriors guard or protect the integrity of the kingdom through maintaining those laws. Rules bring order and safety. Rules can bring freedom or bondage … Continue reading
Addiction: The Eye of the Hurricane
This image of Hurricane Wilma was taken by the crew aboard NASA’s international space station as the complex flew 222 miles above the storm. Wilma’s eye was two miles across at the time, the smallest eye ever observed, indicating an … Continue reading
Another Sneak Preview from the Voices of Hope Project: Josh & Lolly Weed
Since last summer, a special production team assembled by North Star has been busy producing a dynamic interactive companion to Ty Mansfield’s book, Voices of Hope: Latter-day Saint Perspectives on Same-Gender Attraction—An Anthology of Gospel Teachings and Personal Essays, which, … Continue reading


