Category Archives: Communication

Reasons to Write

Prior to joining the Northern Lights team back in 2008, I had blogged for several years about my life as a globe-trotting, single, twenty-something. Although my posts never dealt with issues of homosexuality, the process of recording my thoughts and … Continue reading

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Merciful Reconciliation through Choice and Accountability

Rules and Laws including moral laws bring agency.  Kings make laws and their knights or loyal warriors guard or protect the integrity of the kingdom through maintaining those laws.  Rules bring order and safety.  Rules can bring freedom or bondage … Continue reading

Posted in Agency, Communication, Community, Covenants, Demographics, Disciplinary action, Excommunication, Family and Friends, Honor Code, Men, Prospective Missionaries, Protest, Responsibility, Single Men and Women, Spouses (SSA), Spouses (TIGI), Transgender & Intersexed, Women, Young Adults, Youth | 2 Comments

If You Want to Be My (Girl or Boy) Friend…

9 years ago, a member in the stake presidency of my student stake gave a talk about relationships. He explained it with a story: He and his brother had to help their mom deliver a Relief Society newsletter each Sunday … Continue reading

Posted in Communication, Culture, Depression, Eternal Perspective, Faith, Friendship, Happiness, Identity, Intimacy, Loneliness, Love, Marriage, mixed-orientation, Men, Single Men and Women, Young Adults | Tagged , , , , , | 7 Comments

Taboos and Secrets

Many of us spend most of our lives hiding. Maybe not hiding like in crime chase movies where the good guy is running from good guys who think he’s a bad guy because they’re being manipulated by bad guys who … Continue reading

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Vulnerability Begets Vulnerability

I am halfway done with my visiting teaching.  I made a promise (a stretch, for those of you familiar with the term) to a friend last week that I would actually go and visit the sisters on my list this … Continue reading

Posted in Charity, Communication, Community, Eternal Perspective, Family and Friends, Friendship, Happiness, Healing, Healing, Hope, Local Church Leaders, Love, Married Men and Women, Men, Prospective Missionaries, Service, Single Men and Women, Spouses (SSA), Transgender & Intersexed, Uncategorized, Women, Young Adults, Youth | 1 Comment

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense When my dad was bed ridden just before he died, we had a great time, he was such a tease.  It was hard to tease him back, but … Continue reading

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