Category Archives: Culture

Hair

I know that a lot of men who experience same-sex attraction and are striving to stay faithful to the teachings of the Church relate that have doubts about their masculinity. Some express it in terms of, “not really feeling like … Continue reading

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My Thoughts about God, Spirituality, Religion, The LDS Church, and Where I fit in as one of Father’s gay sons—Part 4

The LDS Church This post was the most difficult of the series to write. At the time I originally wrote the post, I harbored some strong feeling toward the LDS Church that I have since resolved. Where do I begin? … Continue reading

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If You Want to Be My (Girl or Boy) Friend…

9 years ago, a member in the stake presidency of my student stake gave a talk about relationships. He explained it with a story: He and his brother had to help their mom deliver a Relief Society newsletter each Sunday … Continue reading

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Taboos and Secrets

Many of us spend most of our lives hiding. Maybe not hiding like in crime chase movies where the good guy is running from good guys who think he’s a bad guy because they’re being manipulated by bad guys who … Continue reading

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My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense When my dad was bed ridden just before he died, we had a great time, he was such a tease.  It was hard to tease him back, but … Continue reading

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Born That Way

One of the more vocal objections voiced by those who oppose living the gospel with same-gender attraction is encapsulated in three words. Born that way. The reality is that people are born into unique environments. That’s a given. “Was I … Continue reading

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