Category Archives: Philosophy

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense When my dad was bed ridden just before he died, we had a great time, he was such a tease.  It was hard to tease him back, but … Continue reading

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Born That Way

One of the more vocal objections voiced by those who oppose living the gospel with same-gender attraction is encapsulated in three words. Born that way. The reality is that people are born into unique environments. That’s a given. “Was I … Continue reading

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Women, Fire, and Dangerous Things: The Twilight Effect Part 2

  Ok so in my last installment, I spoke of linguistics and culture and marginalization. I started my post referring to a book called Women, Fire, and Dangerous Things by Lakoff. Well, the subtitle of this post seemed to be … Continue reading

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Day of Peace: My Pledge

Two values have been high in my priorities all of my life. I strive daily for both: Freedom and Peace. These values not only inform my choices about myself but also my choices about my relationships. For me, they are … Continue reading

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Becoming Dis-illusioned about “Reparative Therapy” and “Sexual Reorientation”—Part 1

There have been a hundred different post ideas that I’ve been mulling over for the last several weeks, particularly since the recent furor over Josh Weed’s and Steven Frei’s participation in this year’s Circling the Wagons conference and the perception … Continue reading

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This Just In: “Churchball Makes You a Homophobe”

Kristine Haglund recently wrote a provocative article at Religion & Politics, in which she DOES NOT draw that conclusion.  She boldly addresses a few of the incongruities of Mormon culture including weeping men, brotherhood, constructs of masculinity, and this elusive … Continue reading

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