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Fear of the Light and Dark

This past weekend I and a friend were watching Les Miserables the musical.  When I was 17, I started reading the book written by Victor Hugo.  As I saw scene after scene unfold, I saw something that I had recently … Continue reading

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Just a gay…uh…I mean…a guy…

“I wasn’t even sure why I was getting this medal, really. No, that’s not true. I knew why. It’s like people you see sometimes, and you can’t imagine what it would be like to be that person, whether it’s somebody … Continue reading

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A Day for Remembering Mothers

Today at church, we sang “O My Father.” I don’t think I can count how many times that has been one of the hymns at church on Mother’s Day. It always sounds rather ironic. Mother’s Day/O My Father. I’m sure … Continue reading

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Acceptance

I have previously posted about an organization, the Inner Visions Institute, which I discovered last year.  I have really benefitted from some of the things I have implemented because of them. Their theme for the month of May is Acceptance.  I … Continue reading

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In Praise of Discontent

Not that it’s a pleasant thing, but it is a sign that we are trying to be better, and the capacity for self-improvement is a key part of what makes us human. Blaise Pascal, in his book Thoughts on Religion, put it this … Continue reading

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HuffPost Live discussion and public interest in ‘mixed-orientation marriages’

Thanks to a referral from our good friend and fellow Northern Lights blogger, Josh Weed—who was invited to participate today in a HuffPost Live discussion on mixed-orientation marriages, but who couldn’t and passed on my name instead—I took part in … Continue reading

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