Category Archives: Identity

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I know that a lot of men who experience same-sex attraction and are striving to stay faithful to the teachings of the Church relate that have doubts about their masculinity. Some express it in terms of, “not really feeling like … Continue reading

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Guest Post: “Coming Out: A Relief Society Response,” by Laura Skaggs Dulin

Laura is a lifelong member of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and is currently a graduate student of Marriage and Family Therapy. As an MFT Trainee, she is working to empower survivors of domestic violence, sexual assault … Continue reading

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If You Want to Be My (Girl or Boy) Friend…

9 years ago, a member in the stake presidency of my student stake gave a talk about relationships. He explained it with a story: He and his brother had to help their mom deliver a Relief Society newsletter each Sunday … Continue reading

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Video for AMCAP/FAR conference addressing same-sex attraction now available online

On November 17th, 2012, the Association of Mormon Counselors and Therapists (AMCAP) and the Foundation for Attraction Research (FAR) co-sponsored a special conferece, ”Same-Sex Attraction: Reconciling Faith and Feelings,” which explored homosexuality withini the context of LDS faith and religious practice. … Continue reading

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My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense When my dad was bed ridden just before he died, we had a great time, he was such a tease.  It was hard to tease him back, but … Continue reading

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Claiming Your “I Am”

So I need to start by saying that I am shamelessly taking this idea from Iyanla Vanzant and the Inner Visions Institute, whom I first saw on the Rachael Ray show a few months ago.  I loved her “straight to … Continue reading

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