Category Archives: Opposite-sex attraction

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense

My, Grandpa, You are So Sensuous: Wholistic Hope for the Haptic Sense When my dad was bed ridden just before he died, we had a great time, he was such a tease.  It was hard to tease him back, but … Continue reading

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Thoughts at a Fireside

I have been actively a part of the SSA community in Salt Lake for seven years now and I’ve been active in the church for twelve. I’d like to make a comparison between the two communities as a whole. I … Continue reading

Posted in Christmas, Culture, Friendship, Hope, Identity, Intimacy, Loneliness, Love, Men, Opposite-sex attraction, Organizations, Same-sex attraction, Service | 7 Comments

Women, Fire, and Dangerous Things: The Twilight Effect Part 2

  Ok so in my last installment, I spoke of linguistics and culture and marginalization. I started my post referring to a book called Women, Fire, and Dangerous Things by Lakoff. Well, the subtitle of this post seemed to be … Continue reading

Posted in Advocacy, Attraction, Bullying, Communication, Community, Culture, Happiness, Healing, Healing, Holy Ghost, Hope, Identity, Intimacy, Loneliness, Love, Marriage, celestial, Marriage, mixed-orientation, Missionary Work, Opposite-sex attraction, Philosophy, Politics, Service, Sociology, Uncategorized | 5 Comments

There Are Two Types of People When Crushes Are Concerned: Combustibles And Non-combustibles

I have a confession to make. Ever since I came out full force to my wife a couple of months ago – and how that happened I described in my previous post – I experienced a noticeable change in how … Continue reading

Posted in Attraction, Marriage, mixed-orientation, Men, Opposite-sex attraction, Same-sex attraction, Youth | 10 Comments

Far Between: 5-Part Interview with Rich Wyler, founder of People Can Change

As part of the Far Between documentary project—a project purposed to “better understand what it means to be homosexual and Mormon” from a variety of perspectives and experiences—Kendall Wilcox interviewed Rich Wyler, founder and director of the non-profit People Can … Continue reading

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Mountain Climbers

I’ve been having a series of interesting, and very difficult, conversations with a good friend of mine. Her story is not uncommon among those who believe in the gospel of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and are attracted to the … Continue reading

Posted in Demographics, Eternal Perspective, Gospel Topics, Married Men and Women, Opposite-sex attraction, Same-sex attraction, Single Men and Women, Women | 2 Comments