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Women :: Community and Resources

The ways men and women deal with their sexuality and social relationships are very different. Depending on the scientific information you favor, these differences are becoming increasingly manifest. While it is not our intent to endorse or support any particular scientific or social view, it makes sense to us that certain resources may particularly benefit one gender or the other, so we've made this page especially for women.

As a daughter of God with a divinely granted capacity to choose how you live your life, you have multiple positive and healthy options available to you. We encourage you to seek the Spirit in your life and develop a prayerful relationship with your Heavenly Father so He can give you strength and guidance that will help you meet your potential has His child. As you keep your sacred covenants and follow the Savior in faith, you will qualify yourself to receive every blessing from our Father in Heaven. There are many resources available to help you achieve this worthy goal.

Be careful to choose resources you can trust, since different sources may disagree on crucial points that could influence the entire course of your life. There are resources from the Church about spiritual issues, from the government and medical societies about health issues, and from other special interest groups about various social and political issues.

As individuals who believe in and are trying to live according to the principles and standards of the Church, we've tried to assemble a variety of resources that will help you to move forward in the gospel in a way that will be spiritually, emotionally, and socially enriching. Since you're here, we assume you are trying to live the gospel too, and we're glad. Welcome!

Resources on this page are organized as follows:

  • North Star Resources
  • Upcoming Events
  • Church Resources
  • Other Resources

  • North Star Resources

    These are discussion groups, articles, and personal essays created by North Star or published on the North Star website. If you'd like to share some of your feelings, experiences, or your testimony in a personal essay, please contact us.

    Join North Star Women discussion group

    This group is for women who experience homosexual attraction, as well as women who have never experienced homosexual attraction whose sole motivation is to give support and increase their own understanding.

    Read the rules and expectations, and request to join.


    Community Voices
    "That Ye Love One Another"
    By Samantha Stevens

    "It Is Not Good That the Man Should Be Alone": The Virtues of Community and Friendship
    By Ty Mansfield

    Live the Questions
    By Phillip Brown
    Questions and Answers
    Check back for articles here!
    Northern Lights Blog Discussions
    Check back for articles here!


    Upcoming Events

    North Star does not currently sponsor any specific activities or events. We do, however, provide a calendar of events sponsored by other individuals or groups which are in harmony with the mission of North Star and/or encourage values and behavior standards that are consistent with the teachings of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. The following events cater to, or are welcoming of, young adults:

    Monday, January 21, 28
    Manhattan Monday Gathering
    Manhattan (Upper West Side)

    Monday, February 4
    Fireside at home of Fred and Marilyn Matis
    Lehi, Utah

    Monday, February 4, 11, 18, 25
    Manhattan Monday Gathering
    Manhattan (Upper West Side)

    Monday, March 3
    Fireside at home of Fred and Marilyn Matis
    Lehi, Utah

    Monday, March 3, 10, 17, 24, 31
    Manhattan Monday Gathering
    Manhattan (Upper West Side)

    Saturday-Sunday, April 5-6
    Love, Sex, & Intimacy (LSI) Level I Healing Seminar
    Baltimore, Maryland

    Monday, April 7
    Fireside at home of Fred and Marilyn Matis
    Lehi, Utah

    Monday, April 7, 14, 21, 28
    Manhattan Monday Gathering
    Manhattan (Upper West Side)

    Saturday-Sunday, June 21-22
    Mother-Daughter Healing Seminar
    Baltimore, Maryland



    Church Resources

    These are articles, addresses, or Church-sponsored web-pages that have information either specific to same-gender attraction or to broader issues that many women might be faced with.

    God Loveth His Children | PDF
    Newly released booklet (July 20, 2007) providing counsel specific to Latter-day Saints who experience same-gender attraction

    LDS.org Email Subscriptions: Daily Gems




    LDS.org Articles
    Disagreeing without Being Disagreeable
    Joanna Stephenson Price
    Ensign, March 2005

    Compassion for Those Who Struggle
    Name Withheld
    Ensign, September 2004

    My Battle With Same Sex Attraction
    Name Withheld
    Ensign, August 2002

    Becoming Whole Again
    Name Withheld
    Ensign, January 1997

    Let us know of articles by Church leaders or in Church publications that have been helpful to you as a member of the Church striving to remain faithful, by emailing us.
    LDS.org Gospel Library Selected Topics
    Abuse | Adversity | Agency | Atonement of Christ | Chastity | Conversion | Disciplinary Councils | Divorce | Faith | Fall | Forgiveness | Grace | Gratitude | Hope | Internet | Love | Media | Mercy | Obedience | Patriachal Blessings | Peace | Plan of Salvation | Pornography | Prayer | Prophets | Word of Wisdom


    Other Resources

    These are online discussion forums, informational websites, weekend seminars and retreats, or articles and addresses sponsored by other individuals, groups, or organizations. North Star provides the following information only as reference and the approach of particular resources may or may not fully reflect the opinions or approach of individual North Star contributors.

    Online Discussion Groups
    Voicings Online Support Group for Women
    LDS-SSA.org Women's Support Forum
    Website Resources
    Weekend Seminars and Retreats
    Love, Sex, and Intimacy
    Sponsored by the International Healing Foundation
    For youth, men, women, spouses, parents, family

    Mother-Daughter Healing Seminar
    Sponsored by the International Healing Foundation